Time To Up Your Game
If you know me by now you know I say exactly what’s on my mind.
You ask me a question and I will answer it. I’m not going to tell you what you want to hear, I’m going to tell you what I think and what’s in my heart.
You may not like the answer, but it makes no difference to me if you do or not. I’m telling you my truth, and I will always do it with kindness and respect. And honestly if you’re afraid of the answer, not just from me – I mean anyone – don’t ask the question.
Why am I telling you this?
The other day I was in Victoria just hanging out and I popped into the spinnakers gastro brewpub for lunch – the place was packed so I ended up sitting at the bar.
Got myself a nice big old cheese burger with fries and ice tea. And as I was eating I ended up talking to the bartender between him pouring drinks. And the conversation (like always) comes around to “So what do you do for a living?”
So I told him that I’m an affiliate marketer and I explained things in a little more detail of what that is.
And he told me he has always wanted to try affiliate marketing. He did not see himself being a bartender for the rest of his life.
So I asked him what has he done to go after this goal? I was so surprised when he said “nothing” I’ve just been dreaming about it for a few years.
Well my reply really caught him off guard, I said “No wonder you’re still a bartender you’re not doing anything to achieve your dreams”
He said “How can you say that?”
I said: “Easy, you told me you didn’t want to be a bartender for the rest of your life, you said you wanted to try online marketing, but then you said you have done nothing to pursue your goal”
Suffice it to say we did not talk much after that, maybe the reality check was to hard for him to process. The truth usually is.
So I ending up chatting with this really nice girl who sat beside me. I finished my burger and ice tea, I left him a big tip and when back to wandering around Victoria.
Lot Of Talk No Action
It’s sad to say I run into a lot of people that talk a good game, but don’t do shit to get what they want. But are compelled to complain and bitch that they aren’t happy and don’t have what they want.
I’m a simple guy. If you’re doing what you have to do to pay the bills, so this usually means a shitty job. But in your spare time you’re doing what you need to do to raise yourself out of what you don’t want to get where you want to be.
You absolutely have the right to bitch about how hard things are. Why? Because you’re doing something about it and there are days where you need to bitch so your head does not explode.
Bitch on baby, and I’ll be here to listen, support and help you if I can.
But if you’re bitching and complaining about your lot in life and you’re not doing anything to change it. Then SHUT the hell up!!! People are tired of hearing you, it’s old and it’s a tired old story.
Plus you have no right to bitch. It’s obvious you prefer being a victim, telling your little victim story and screaming to everyone “poor me” feel sorry for me, it’s not my fault.
WRONG! It is your fault because you’re not doing anything to change it.
What You Focus On Is What You Get
I have always remembered that, “what you focus on is what you get”.
It’s pretty simple, if you’re constantly telling yourself and others your victim story and that’s what you’re always focusing on.
Guess what? That’s what’s going to come to you all day everyday.
Here’s a heads up. It works the other way too!!
Time For A Change
If you want to be more, become more, earn more, do more, have more, achieve more, reach higher levels in your business and personal life then you absolutely have to start upping your game.
You need to change what you’re focusing on and change your thinking.
This means you have to think of yourself differently and start thinking of yourself as more than you are. And do what that person would do.
Think of yourself as you want to be and be that person now!! Increase your
expectations of yourself as well as others.
It’s time to hold yourself to a higher standard and time to block out all the negative noise and remove the toxic people from your life, this includes friends and family.
Raise Your Game!!
Stop looking for someone to do things for you, put all the weight squarely on your shoulders and get things fricken done!!
Is it going to be easy? Hell NO!!
There are going to be obstacles, there are going to be mountains to climb, and oceans to cross.
And when that shit happens. You know what you need to do?
You need to plow through that obstacle, you run up the mountain, and you motorboat across that ocean!!
My site is for winners, go getters and for people that will power through the challenges to achieve what they want to achieve. My site is not for people that are more concerned about the newest useless moronic reality show on TV.
Actually most everything on TV in my opinion is useless. It’s completely mind numbing and creating a society of idiots that think the Kardashians are adding value to the world. The sooner these people fade away and are never heard from again the better.
This is a place for people who are ready to up their game and get to where they want to be.
So my question for you right now is…
“Are you in the right place, is this where you want to be?”
Or are you comfortable being surrounded by toxic, negative losers and haters that have given up and the only thing left for them to do is point fingers at others and keep bitching about their lot in life.
It’s an all day pity party complaining and telling their victim story over and over again. Man I would think that’s got to get old after a while.
Did you watch Lord Of The Rings? Remember Mordor? It was dark, dank and you could see and feel the despair and negativity.
If that’s where you want to be, then it’s time for you to go – you don’t belong here.
Leave my site and don’t come back until you’re ready to change and have made the decision to be the driver of your life and not a mindless passenger.
But if that’s NOT where you want to be, and you want to be the driver of your life, then you ARE in the right place.
Here’s where you’ll find people that are willing to work for their successes and want to be surrounded by like minded motivated people.
- If you want more – then do more!
- If you want to become more – then do more!
- If you want to be more – then get around people that are more!
If you want to raise your game then surround yourself with people that will build you up instead of constantly tearing you down. Achieving all your goals is hard enough without some pinhead telling you can’t achieve anything.
You know how long people like that last in my life? And I mean professional negative people.
I have no problem leaving a person like that in the dust and forgetting about them. I’ve got no room for someone like that in my life. I get to choose who I surround myself with – not you or anyone else.
Do you think everyday is a rose garden for me?
I have challenges as well. But I welcome them, I don’t wallow in them, I attack them and I make them my bitch!
I solve the challenge and then I move on. And I can do that because of my mind set and the high standard I have set for myself.
I’m in charge of my life – nothing else is.
So It’s Time To Raise Your Game Baby!!
So get out there and go for it. Leave behind the haters and people that have given up on themselves.
The past is just that – the past.
And like Tony Robbins said:
The Past Does Not Equal The Future
You can’t change the past so stop living in it. Living in the past and beating yourself up for past mistakes is what’s holding you back.
Let it go – end that today!!
Start filling your mind with positive information. Start reading more, find a mentor, surround yourself with like minded motivated people.
And turn the TV off.
It’s nothing but shit that’s designed to waste your time and fill you with useless information. Hell throw it out the window. Well don’t do that you can still use it to watch movies.
And do yourself the biggest favor, stop judging yourself before you attempt to do anything. Are you going to stumble? Are you going to fail? Are you going to make a fool of yourself? Maybe, but who cares. Just lets thing go and let it fly.
You’ll be absolutely amazed at what you can do.
And also stop worrying what other people think of you.
I could care less what people think of me. My self worth is not dependent on what people think of me. I do what I want to do but I always make sure I do not do anything illegal, immoral and not hurt people with what I’m doing.
And if people have a problem with that – who gives a shit. These people have no value in my life so how can they affect my life?
So instead of the bartender that talks about doing affiliate marketing. Get off your ass and do what you know you have to do and get it done!
And if you ever need a hand just give me a buzz here on my site or inside the Wealthy Affiliate. I’m always here for you.
I Believe In You! Always Have Always Will!
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